THINGS YOU SHOULDN’T SAY TO YOUR PARTNER

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 THINGS YOU SHOULDN’T SAY TO YOUR PARTNER

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 Most of the time in a relationship we face difficulty like not being able to understand each other at the moment, sometimes we find it difficult to agree with each other regarding one issue or the other.
Having an argument or misunderstanding is normal in a relationship, you might want to talk about it with your spouse, throwing shades or insults can be toxic and can affect the relationship in so many ways that might not be fixable later on. Having conversation with your spouse about what you are not okay with or something that hurts you helps to build a stronger bond and better understanding between you and your spouse especially when it’s not done with fighting to win or calling names.

       THINGS YOU SHOULDN’T SAY TO YOUR PARTNER

 1.  “Your are crazy” 
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Using this word is not only disrespectful but creates more anger and fight in a relationship.

2. “It’s Your Fault”                                                                   
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Blames are not necessary in a relation as it happens to make things worst in a situation. Asking your partner in a polite way to do something differently would be much better.

3. I DON’T CARE                        
 Image result for couples having argument image   Saying you don’t care makes your partner feel worthless, it stimulates a primitive fright of abandonment. Being always caring is one good quality for a loving relationship, it is always important.

  4. “You constantly or You Never”                                 Image result for couples having argument image
Criticism is identified as one of reason why couple breakup in the relationship, absolutes should never be said to your partner, the word never or constantly are rarely accurate and often said out of anger or frustration. Instead of putting the other person on the defensive, I suggest sticking to the fact which gives you a way of being honest about what’s bothering you.

    5. DIVORCE                                                                                                               
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This word has been used by couples sometimes when they want to get their partners attention, this word shouldn’t be said unless you mean it, avoid using this word when quarrelling, or when having some sort of misunderstanding with your partner. The word Divorce rings a bell especially when said out of anger, most importantly you cannot unsay what have been said to someone’s hearing.

    6. SHUT UP  
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This is highly aggressive and disrespectful word to use; the word “shut up” tends to be used sometimes during an argument, when one partner is upset or so aggressive. Using the word “Can you please be quiet” can deliver the message in a calmer and more respectful manner.

7. YOU ARE WRONG TO BE ANGRY
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Feelings aren’t right or wrong, never tell your partner how they should or shouldn’t feel. A person who feels like their feelings don’t matter to their partner will feel like they don’t matter

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